How to be photographed when you feel awkward in photos

Having fun during a Branding Session in the San Francisco East Bay

One of the most common things clients tell me before a session is,
“I’m awkward in front of the camera,” or “I don’t know how to pose.”

Some even tell me they’re worried they’re just not photogenic.

Here’s the truth: you don’t need to know how to pose to have beautiful photographs.
That’s my job.

Family portrait session in the Berkeley Eucalyptus Grove. Laughing encouraged!

Most people don’t need more instructions—they need to feel comfortable

A great photo rarely comes from perfect posture or forced smiles. It comes from people feeling relaxed enough to be themselves.

That’s why my sessions don’t feel stiff or high-pressure. We move slowly, we talk, we laugh, and I guide you gently rather than telling you to “stand here and smile.”

You don’t need to perform.
You just need to show up.

Headshots that look and feel like you. Taken outside my studio in Berkeley.

If you’re nervous, you’re not alone

Adults worry about how they look.
Kids can be unpredictable.
Families wonder if everyone will cooperate at the same time.

Before I started my photography business, I spent over ten years working as the director of a Montessori school. I’m deeply comfortable with people of all ages and with moments that don’t go exactly as planned.

That experience taught me how to read energy quickly, create calm in chaotic moments, meet people where they are and allow space for authenticity.

Those skills translate directly into photography sessions that feel welcoming and unforced.

They were just standing there so cute. Click! Taken during a family portrait session in the Berkeley hills.

What my sessions are actually like

During a session, I guide you without over-directing. I’ll offer simple prompts, adjust small details, and help you find natural movement rather than stiff poses.

Because I’ve been photographing people since I was young, long before it became my profession, I’ve learned how to notice flattering angles, beautiful light, and meaningful moments as they unfold.

You don’t have to think about any of that.
That’s what experience is for.

The goal isn’t just beautiful photos; it’s a good experience

My hope is that you leave your session thinking,
“That was easier than I expected, and actually kind of fun.”

When people feel seen, accepted, and at ease, it shows in the images. And those are the photographs clients tend to love the most.

If you’ve been putting off photos because you’re nervous, unsure how to pose, or worried you won’t like the results, I’d love to help change that experience for you.

Ready when you are

If you’re looking for a photographer who will guide you, put you at ease, and capture you as you truly are, I’d be happy to talk about what you have in mind.